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Not your average bear.

BHM (32) looking for Female Batavia, Ohio, United States

First and foremost, I am a musician. As such, I love (almost) all music. I have a stern dislike for dubstep though, it just sounds like noise to me but perhaps I'm just getting too old?
That's another thing. I believe that age is a mindset, not a number. I like to think I've been an adult since I was about fourteen. One can surmise their real age by taking everything bad that has happened to them and weighing it against how they react when something good happens, I suppose.

I am Pagan, and even though I do not practice as much as I would like to, I can probably surprise you once in a while. That doesn't mean I'm heathen, though, and no I do not worship Satan. Please don't confuse the two.

Currently, and for a while now, I am unemployed. I've just never really had an "in", if you know what I mean. As you can guess, being unemployed I do still live at home. My only immediate family is my grandmother, though. The rest are either elsewhere or no longer with us.

Growing up, I never really had a father. I guess I can attribute this to my innate want for a child some day, so I can be the father that I never had.

Even though I can be serious, most of the time you'll find me to be more than just a little immature. I watch cartoons more than I watch live-action television or movies, and I do watch anime and read comics when I can get my hands on them.

Much as I hate to admit it, I have a hard time finishing things. I start projects all the time, but they fall through due to lack of interest or some other reason. I guess I just haven't really found my -thing-, y'know?

I like to write (but I would bet you had already deduced that much), but reading just tends to put me to sleep.

I will tell you right now, I am not in any way thin. I am a large person, obese doesn't cover it. Don't mistake that for a disability, though. Believe it or not, I'm comfortable with and enjoy being a large person. I'm warm, very easy to cuddle with, and rather homey if you know what I mean. No, not the slang "homey", either.

I guess this is a good stopping point. If you would like to learn more about me, just ask.

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